When did you decide to pursue a straight life? Time and date would be great thanks.
1.follow or chase (someone or something).2.continue or proceed along (a path or route).
Pete Zahut
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Shooting in the foot (homophobic video)
by Syme inwith the newly released homophobic video by the wts, it gets clearer that those people can't stop shooting themselves in the foot.
they are already under examination and de facto trial by the australian committee; more and more people and officials in western democracies inquire into their abusive tactics and put them under the microscope, and what do they do?
they release a video which confirms those worries.
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Pete Zahut
As is often the case when discussing this touchy subject, I realize that by singling out a single harmless word such as pursue, you are essentially straining the fly specks out of the pepper in an effort to seem like you have a valid point.If you read my comment again, you'll see that I didn't use the word "decide", you added that yourself and it changed the intent of my comment. You assumed I was saying that someones sexuality is a choice and I wasn't, You may also me assuming I'm straight.Since you asked however, I don't have a specific date but by the definitions you provided, I suppose once I realized what my sexual preference was, I followed or chased individuals that fit that preference, found someone who wanted to make a permanent arrangement based around that preference, and then continued or proceeded along that path or route ever since. -
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Shooting in the foot (homophobic video)
by Syme inwith the newly released homophobic video by the wts, it gets clearer that those people can't stop shooting themselves in the foot.
they are already under examination and de facto trial by the australian committee; more and more people and officials in western democracies inquire into their abusive tactics and put them under the microscope, and what do they do?
they release a video which confirms those worries.
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Pete Zahut
When did you decide to pursue a straight life? Time and date would be great thank
1. Follow or chase (someone or something)
- 2. continue or proceed along (a path or route).
As is generally the case in discussions on this topic, I realize you are trying to find something to be offended about and by singling out a single harmless word, you are essentially straining the fly specks out of the pepper rather than understand the intent of the comment. You might also be assuming I'm straight. If you look at my comment again, you'll see I didn't use the word "decide". You added that word and it changed the intent and meaning of my comment.
Since you asked however, I don't have a specific date of when I began to pursue my current lifestyle, but according to the definition you've provided for me, I suppose it was when I realized my sexual preference was a certain way and I followed or chased individuals with the same preference until I met someone who also wanted to make a permanent arrangement based on that preference and I've continued to proceed along that "path or route" ever since.
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Shooting in the foot (homophobic video)
by Syme inwith the newly released homophobic video by the wts, it gets clearer that those people can't stop shooting themselves in the foot.
they are already under examination and de facto trial by the australian committee; more and more people and officials in western democracies inquire into their abusive tactics and put them under the microscope, and what do they do?
they release a video which confirms those worries.
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Pete Zahut
Once again....another misconception of what was said. Read my comment again, I was not trying to compare a gay person to an adulterer, I was pointing out that when teaching their own children about their understanding of God's laws, JW's aren't just picking on Gay people as the title of this post is indicating.The fact that you're trying to compare fornication to being gay is truly abysmal.
I was trying to point out that when it comes to this particular topic (homosexuality) this video isn't being any more "Phobic" than it would be if the topic of the video been about about Immorality or Adultery for example. In either case, JW's believe, that breakers of God's law, whether Heterosexual or Homosexual, will not be allowed into the new system. (ie:destroyed) There is no Homophobia involved....they are equal opportunity condemners. Drunkards, smokers, drug users, apostates, adulterers, porn watchers, masturbators, people who don't comment enough at meetings, tax evaders, unwed mothers and gays according to JW's are all gonners when Armageddon comes.
It seems to me that when someone criticizes heterosexuals, they aren't called Hetero-Phobic. You can say pretty much anything you want about Heterosexuality. Gay people sometimes even use the word "Breeders" when referring to Heterosexuals yet when anything less than glowing or praiseworthy is even perceived to have been said about Gay people during a discussion such as this, people are quick to jumping to conclusions and using words like abysmal to describe an innocent comment. It's much the same when it comes to racial issues. White people (especially white men) can be blamed by non whites for just about every problem in the world but if a white person says anything even slightly critical of any other race, they are called bigots and or racists.
It used to be that you had to ACTUALLY DO SOMETHING bad to someone, to be considered a Racist or a Bigot. Now all you have to do is express an opposing opinion or use a non P.C. term and people come unglued.
I stand by my original opinion. To my understanding of the word this video is not "Phobic" in any way and as much as I disagree with them, JW's (just like anyone else) should in my opinion be allowed to express their views on any topic they want without having to apologize for them or have anyone try to censor them. I wouldn't want to live in a country where that wasn't the case. If however they were to condone the mistreatment of Gay people or start infringing on the rights of Gay people, that would be a different situation altogether. As I said before, it has been my experience that JW's are equal opportunity condemners when it comes to people they believe are breaking Gods laws.
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Here's a view on homosexuality for you...
by konceptual99 in...right from a pro-jw site in response to a post about the relative seriousness of homosexuality.
all you can do is reason from the scriptures, which you appear to have done.
homosexuality is as serious as bestiality, or adultery and fornication.
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Pete Zahut
At least with heterosexual fornication the wrong doers are acting in harmony with the natural desire for the opposite sex.
Apart from the occasional narrow minded redneck JW, it has been my experience that most JW's blame "imperfection" as the reason we are inclined to do sinful things. This includes our inability to control our biological urges, Heterosexual, Homosexual or otherwise.
The reason that Homosexuality seems to be treated the harshest even though the punishment from God is the supposedly the same, is because heterosexuals can't wrap their minds around what physically has to take place during the sex act between homosexuals. The Watchtower comment above makes it easier for them to justify them going the extra mile when it comes to treating Homosexuals harshly. It almost seems as though Pedophiles get more slack from the Watchtower Society, than Homosexuals do.
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Shooting in the foot (homophobic video)
by Syme inwith the newly released homophobic video by the wts, it gets clearer that those people can't stop shooting themselves in the foot.
they are already under examination and de facto trial by the australian committee; more and more people and officials in western democracies inquire into their abusive tactics and put them under the microscope, and what do they do?
they release a video which confirms those worries.
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Pete Zahut
The phobia raises it's head that her little girl must not be happy that her friend has two mothers. There can be no joy in being gay.
I'm not condoning the video here but I think it's safe to say that most people (including JW's) realize that there must be something positive about being gay otherwise so many wouldn't risk life and limb to pursue that life. In this video they are discussing children with same sex parents. The JW Mother isn't saying anything about the character of gay people or telling the child to be mean to her classmate, she is teaching the little girl what she (the mother) believes is Gods view on the issue of Homosexuality. Nothing was said in the video to indicate that a gay family can't be happy or can't be good people .... you filled in those blanks yourself. The emphasis was on what Jehovah wants and what happens if we don't do what he wants. They believe he knows what's best for us and has the authority to tell us what to do and punish us if we don't. It's only natural that a Mother teaches her child what she believes to be true.
They are being told that their natural desire to love and to be loved is somehow evil.
It that's not an irrational fear - if that's not a phobia - I don't know what is.
When it comes to our sexuality being a choice or not, a lot of research shows that men are wired to have multiple sex partners and spread their DNA around yet Women and Christianity expect men to deny this strong urge and stick to one partner for the rest of his life even though it may be very difficult. If this video were about a little girl who's school friend was upset because her parents were divorcing after the Daddy cheated on the Mommy, the JW mother would be explaining how Jehovah is against fornication and adultery and won't allow people who do that, into Paradise. Whether or not science shows that Men are wired to be with multiple partners, the Mother believes that Jehovah expects humans to behave a certain way even if it's against our nature or the rest of the world thinks it's ok.
After hearing about someone being dfed for homosexuality my mother said she would rather her child was dead than a homosexual.s
Again, the title of this topic referred to the Video in question as "Homophobic". To me , when it comes to the statement above, it is irrational and phobic thinking to prefer their child dead than Gay and I highly doubt the Watchtower Society would back such an attitude even though some of the more imbalanced JW's feel that way. To be fair, the Watchtower Society can't be held responsible for it's members who go way above and beyond what is required when it comes to certain beliefs or teachings.
It always surprises me to see how differently people see things. One person who watches this video may not necessarily agree with it but still they are able to see it as a mother calmly and logically explaining her own understanding of the complex subject of Homosexuality. Another person sees the same video and hears hate speech and homophobia and wants it banned from public view.
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RC 2016 Leaks & Releases
by wifibandit inin an effort to reduce the number of posts, this year i will try to add links to this post.
now, on with the leaks & releases!
first up.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0nzvwhflss4.
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Pete Zahut
I'm glad to see that they had a nicely furnished windowless concrete block bunker with a steel door, to flee to. Amazing how you could still hear the mayhem outside...must be pretty bad. Nevertheless, the brothers made sure to shave and one even put on a tie and the sisters hair was curled and they took time to make sure they were wearing coordinated scarves artfully draped,even though they said they've have gotten used to "doing without". Won't be long now till someone starts banging on the bunker door...hopefully the Brothers are packin' their "silver swords".
These videos are just laughable.....I know the JW's I used to know, will be mocking them.
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When Disaster Strikes
by NeverAllowestobeMyself injehovah's witnesses repeatedly report that when disaster strikes they are the quickest to respond, the most organized relief agency and they provide superior support to their members and the affected community.. they make it sound like organizations such as the red cross are completely in disarray every disaster until jehovah's witnesses show up and show everyone how it's done!.
in the wake of recent disasters around the globe i would like to encourage everyone to share experiences of people showing genuine love to their neighbors, communities going the extra mile and organizations doing brilliant work..
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Pete Zahut
There's a discussion HERE about how the Society actually profits when disaster strikes. (scroll to the bottom of the first post where it says "Relief Funds") -
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Shooting in the foot (homophobic video)
by Syme inwith the newly released homophobic video by the wts, it gets clearer that those people can't stop shooting themselves in the foot.
they are already under examination and de facto trial by the australian committee; more and more people and officials in western democracies inquire into their abusive tactics and put them under the microscope, and what do they do?
they release a video which confirms those worries.
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Pete Zahut
The G.B and those who help them produce the videos and other garbage are so out of touch with Public Opinion that they have indeed shot themselves in the foot once again.
I don't think the beliefs of JW's are influenced by public opinion otherwise they'd celebrated Birthdays and Christmas and they'd certainly never go from door to door.
That is the definition of homophobic speech.
I didn't see anything "phobic" about what was said in the video. It was a mother teaching her child what she feels is the correct way to understand what's going on when she has a classmate who's parents are gay. Nothing she said was anymore irrational than any of her other Bible based beliefs . The Mother believes that anyone who disobeys her understanding of Gods rules, will die at Armageddon which includes Heterosexuals who have sex before marriage or commit adultery while they are married.
To me being Phobic about something, you have to have an irrational fear of it to the point that it is interupting your daily activities. It used to be that to be called intolerant, phobic or bigoted, you had to actually do something mean or harmful to someone else or be behaving irrationally. Now, if you dare to disagree with popular opinion out loud, you are branded ignorant and even said to be hateful.
Parent's will continue to pass their moral values onto their children (including JW's) and they should be free to do so whether I agree with them or not.
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Is this the best you have to offer. Trump / Clinton?
by Lostandfound inhere in uk we have appalling choice between cameron / corby and some also rans.
are trump/clinton best the worlds superpower can offer up?
all candidates for office seem to be flawed , are no genuine people putting themselves forward?
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Pete Zahut
All candidates for office seem to be flawed , are no genuine people putting themselves forward? Are politics such a dirty business that real leaders steer clear?
What's the Queen's schedule look like for the next four years?
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So can you pray for others that are not JW's ? Or only JW's
by tor1500 ini'm a witness, so i need to know...can we pray for someone that isn't a jw.
reason i ask, once a friend of mine was going for an operation.
i asked an elder could he pray with her before she goes into the hospital.
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Pete Zahut
Matt 10:29 "Not a sparrow falls to the ground without your father knowing about it"
Your friend should be able to pray to God for assistance on her own and her prayer still be heard whether or not others pray for her . I never understood the idea that it took multiple prayers on behalf of someone else to get God to listen. If that were the case, popular people or people with large families would be given priority and an orphan or lonely old widow would be out of luck.
Pray for whoever you want to. Your relationship is with God and there's no need to look to other people to tell you what you can or can't pray to him about.